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Friends Talking Nerdy

Friends Talking Nerdy is a podcast hosted by Professor Aubrey, Tim the Nerd, and The Reverend Tracy that delves deep into all things geeky and nerdy. With their passion for pop culture, science, mental health, and technology, the hosts offer insightful commentary on the latest trends and happenings in the world of geekdom. Through their engaging banter and lively discussions, Professor Aubrey, Tim the Nerd, and The Reverend Tracy create a fun and informative space for all nerds to come together and explore the latest trends and ideas. We hope you join us.

Nerdy Bitz: TL;DL – The Failure Gap Friends Talking Nerdy: A Mental Health Podcast

In this bite-sized but brain-stretching episode of Nerdy Bitz: TL;DL, The Reverend Tracy pulls back the curtain on something we don’t talk about nearly enough—the Failure Gap. Why does success feel like it’s everywhere, while failure seems invisible? Spoiler: it’s not because everyone else has it all figured out.The Reverend Tracy breaks down how survivorship bias, social media highlight reels, and good old-fashioned storytelling have teamed up to sell us a very skewed version of reality. From viral success stories to “overnight” sensations that took a decade (or three), this episode exposes the hidden pile of failed attempts sitting just out of frame.With sharp insight and a touch of humor, The Reverend Tracy challenges the idea that success is common—or even evenly distributed—and explores how this illusion messes with our expectations, confidence, and mental health. If you’ve ever wondered why it feels like everyone else is winning while you’re stuck grinding, this episode is your reality check… in the best way possible.Because once you understand the Failure Gap, you stop comparing your behind-the-scenes to someone else’s highlight reel—and start playing the long game instead.As always, we wish to thank Christopher Lazarek for his wonderful theme song. Head to his ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ for information on how to purchase his EP, Here's To You, which is available on all digital platforms.Head to Friends Talking Nerdy's⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠for more information on where to find us online.
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